As I sit in the class staring blankly at the slides being displayed, my mind wanders off (as it often does :D) and I start to think about everything that has happened since I entered the hallowed gates of XLRI. What have the past six months really meant to me? - Chaotic for sure filled with intense yet fun and challenging moments
Like everyone who gets a chance to be
here, I too entered this place with a lot of energy, passion (the elusive
quality everybody seems to be looking for!!) and a fair bit of confidence (a
shade of overconfidence maybe, time will tell...)in myself and my abilities.
Then it came..BAM!! Reality hit me hard in the face and I found out that I was
not good at a whole bunch of things. And here are a few lessons that I have
learnt during these six months.
Humility
- You don’t really know as much you think you know
Getting into a B-School, you are
likely to believe that you are up there, the best of the lot, the crème de la
crème so to say (which to a certain extent, is true!!). Many
people here graduated top of the school, gold medallists in college and an
awesome job to back that up, but there is quite a high probability that many
are still idiots (me included!) when it comes to business. And it’s not
their fault. Business is something which comes with experience and that has no
substitute. There may be examples to the contrary but what I say this is true
for majority of the population. The good news is, MBA education will shatter
your dream world and bring you back to reality.
I learnt I wasn’t here for a walk
in the park. Even in such a short span I have learnt quite a bit in areas I
thought I was good at and discovered many which I didn’t even know existed. Being
humbled is one the best things that has happened since it will help me not only
in my education here but also in my life. Learning stops if you have a chip on
your shoulder and believe that you know it all. XL makes sure you realize that.
Stay Calm
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son!
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son!
These
lines from Rudyard Kipling’s “If” pretty much sum up everything that you need
to do at a B school and in life, especially the part about keeping your head. Life
at a B school comes with a lot of opportunities. But along with them come the
deadlines and the stress associated with them. There have been days when I had
to prepare for 2 exams the next day all the while staring down the barrel of 3
deadlines. Times like these can be pretty overwhelming. The only way to deal
with this is to stay calm and believe in yourself. That and believing in the age old maxim “This too shall pass” J.This will
continue to remain true for ever. B schools just give you a taste of and
prepare you for life ahead.
Bite off only what you can chew
Everybody has their strengths and
weaknesses, acknowledge them
Just because you are not good at
something does not mean that you are no good. There are people here who are
absolutely brilliant at some courses and almost pathetically bad in some
others. Over a period of time I realized that living my life with this attitude
was simply not healthy. I too had my strengths. Just needed to figure out my
strengths and leverage them.
This is also true in life. It’s
okay to have both strengths and weaknesses. In fact it’s only human to be so.
We are all imperfect (except of course if you are Sachin. He is perfect. He is God!).Play to your
strengths, acknowledge you weaknesses and work on them. Success will
automatically follow. This certainly is one of the biggest takeaways from my
time here till now.
Make friends, not contacts
A lot is said about how you need
to “network” and build “contacts” in a B school. I saw a lot of people get into
the mad rush of networking without really knowing where they were going with
that. I too tried to become a part of the crowd and was tempted to do what
everyone was doing. But the last few months have made me realize one thing-To
Make friends, not contacts. Be social, interact and try to build relationships
with people as opposed to a network in the MBA sense of the term. The
friends that you make and the kind of relationships you build are what
determine the course of your life
And now we
come to the most important part of this article. The most important thing that
life here has taught me, the magic ingredient, the holy grail of all MBA’s and
it is..wait for it...GAS!! ( Globally Accepted Shit, Is it??). Don’t have a clue
about the problem or its solution, GAS away. The answer to life ,the universe
and everything else is not 42 (Sorry Douglas Adams!) but GAS. For those who
did not get the context, either read up Douglas Adams or better dismiss this
line as a piece of GAS and move on.
There are
many other things that life here has taught me, but the professor is really
starting to stare at me and I need to concentrate fully on sleeping with my
eyes open and giving the impression that I’m listening. Signing off till the
next time.
– Srilu.